Jan 29 2009
Our Hast to Judge
I watched a television show last night that was about a gay man who was living a secret life. He was engaged to a girl as he told his parents, but in reality, he was involved with another man. His mother suspected and did not want to hear about it whenever he tried to tell her. His mother was in denial and wanted to believe that her son was engaged to a woman.
Our hast to judge is why this boy had to lie. People do not want to deal with a person being gay. There is nothing wrong with same sex relationships nor is there anything wrong with letting people know who you are. People, especially parents have to accept their children. You are not going to change them, but you might alienate them if you try to force your opinions on them.
Parents, you have lived your life, raised your children and now it is time to let your children live their lives as you have done. Even if they live it differently than you did does not mean they are not your children.
